Opinions
Opinions are effects created by a certain action or emotion or activity....but as each action has an equal and opposite reaction...opinions also are supportive and reverse in their characteristics...

whether they are asked for or not expected ,opinions still emerge and evaporate into thin air if not put to vocal use...whenever one is asked to voice an opinion it is existent in the mind of the person voicing the opinion that his or her opinion will be held in the highest regard and that everyone listening to it will be 'for' the opinion generated...If that is the state,there is harmonious interaction...if that is not the case ...well ..be ready for a discussion(heated or otherwise)!!!

opinions expressed are a very strong base of any democracy as every vote cast is an opinion..opinions expressed are most important as far as creative liberty is concerned ...cause every work of art is an opinion of the creator..opinions expressed are a persons basic right...cause they are almost like reflex actions

what say?

SPACE...TRUE OR VIRTUAL

SPACE...TRUE OR VIRTUAL



The much talked about Gen-ex when exposed to a discussion on 'personal relationships management' become a bit uncomfortable and loose their much maintained equilibrium.The 'space ' which is expected out of every relationship does its vaccum creation and leaves these 'people of the future with nothing more than abscense of gravity and blackholes in their relationships.

Since when did this space become so important in our Indian ethos...does westernisation and globalisation mean diminishing of our deep rooted ideas of belonging?

why compromise? this question is asked time and again as regards everything and anything...

compromise because you love the person you are compromising for,
compromise because the relation means more than the self,
compromise because it will eventually bring you happiness for the deed you have done...
compromise because it means you have put someone's needs before your's...
compromise because you have chosen to rise above the self...

IS it not wonderful to have your mother wait for you to have dinner with...
is it not satisfying to have someone to hold your hand in times of trauma,
is it not bliss to see the first performance of your child on the stage and then shed a tear of happiness with your spouse..
what space are we talking about when a father worries about his 'about to deliver a child'daughter?

space can only leave a space which is 'empty' between people...
there is nothing wrong to expect good behaviour form your offspring
nothing wrong to expect loyalty from your partner
nothing wrong to expect care from parents
nothing wrong to care without the expectation and reward
nothing wrong to love and expect love in return too...

the 'space' required is mostly for 'private' activities which we are ashamed of sharing with the world...

some years ago we shared space of the soul with real people around us...
where are these people now...I see only astronauts around!!